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Deadly Jealousy

posted Saturday, 19 August 2006
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Tonight, I heard that a young man that I used to work with was arrested for murder today. Last night, he killed a man walking along the road, shooting him eight times.

The reason?

Yep. You guessed it. Jealousy. How surprising. Yawn.

The woman he'd been living with had broken up with him for beating her up and had gone on, with a new man in her life. Apparently he was unable to move on to someone new, because he'd been stalking his ex's new man. Last night, when the other man was walking home from work, the spurned lover drove by and emptied his rage by means of a pistol into his ex's current lover.

This kind of behavior baffles me and is totally foreign to my nature. If a woman doesn't want me any longer, I may not like it, but I always know there are plenty of fish in the sea, and I quickly move on to the next one. This is certainly nothing to throw one's entire life away over.

I'd worked with the woman as well. It's a very good thing that I did not find her attractive because that could have been my ass lying in the ditch on the side of the road.



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1. Liveandlearn left...
Saturday, 19 August 2006 7:46 am :: http://chrysalis.blog-city.com

This is just awful news. I feel so bad for the woman involved who's having to go through all this because of someone being jealous. I've never understood why people let jealousy get so out of control. All I can say is Thank God you didn't have anything to do with her...


2. Paula Reed left...
Saturday, 19 August 2006 9:25 am

Wow. This is really sad. Obviously this guy had other issues. No one really does this out of jealousy alone or it would happen far more often.


3. rosebud left...
Saturday, 19 August 2006 12:55 pm :: http://newname.blog-city.com

I agree with Paula that other issues had to have been involved with the shooting. I would guess his ego couldn't handle the rejection among other things. I would guess he also felt humiliated that she found someone else so quickly.

You know you have been rather lucky with not running across one of those jealous types long before now with your track record. Hopefully you never will.


4. JohnSherck left...
Saturday, 19 August 2006 3:57 pm :: http://wheresmyplan.blog-city.com

Wow, that's pretty f***ed up. It's not even as though it was the other guy's fault or that she was cheating on him. He was a jerk, she left him, and this other guy gets killed over it.

I agree with Paula and Rosebud that there was more in the mix here than jealousy. At the same time, doesn't it seem like our culture is awfully accepting of the emotion of jealousy? Not, obviously, to the extreme that anyone would say this was okay, but it's the sort of thing where we accept that jealousy is natural and so is somehow all right. Then you add mental instability and this happens, but it's building on a negative emotion in the first place.


5. sophmom left...
Saturday, 19 August 2006 6:08 pm :: http://www.dotcalm.blog-city.com

You guys are right. Obviously some "mental instability" was involved here. Very sad story. I am also glad you never got involved with her. I don't believe in the existence of unrequited love. If it's not mutual it's not love. Although I remember feeling differently when I was younger, I have no interest in anyone who does not want me. I'm sorry this happened, W.


6. catty left...
Saturday, 19 August 2006 7:54 pm :: http://savetheamericanfamily.blog-city.c

Very scary W. Honey came home with the story of a woman who worked for his company, different city. She broke up with a boyfriend, who then chased her through the parking lot at work, into a restaurant next door, and shot her to death before killing himself. She was mid fourties, he was mid fifties. So we aren't talking inexperienced kid jealousy. This is over the line mental illness. Look at all the anti stalking laws in the last 20 years.

I'm with Sophmom, if it's not mutual, it's not love. Be careful out there.


7. Jonathan left...
Monday, 21 August 2006 1:53 am :: http://iridescence.wordpress.com/

Yes, technically it could have been you. What a scary thought!


8. Chuck left...
Thursday, 1 March 2007 3:02 am

Yes this is very freighting, yet sadly I can almost relate. I was married for 15 years to a wonderful woman who I still love although we are divorced. You see I couldn't get a grip on my emotions after she told me about an affair she had early in our relationship, one she had denied angrily many times accusing me of being mentally unstable and paranoid. I was never violent, I simply was mad all the time, became extremely jealous and began drinking to excess. She has recently started dating someone and it absolutely crushes me inside.

I had a number of girlfriends before I got married (20-35) and our breakups never felt like this, whether she or I cheated or we simply got tired of each other.

I won't shoot my ex's new BF, but I sure would like to. The pain of this breakup is simply debilitating. If I'm simply mentally ill, why would it only attach to one person???


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