The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People Date: 01 May, 2002   —   $10.50   —   Book product page Rating:

A biologically based study of animal and human behavior, showing that human beings, as well as most animal species, are not naturally monogamous.  Particular attention is paid to the difference between "social monogamy" and actual biological monogamy.  Also refuted are earlier studies which suggested that men were naturally promiscuous and women naturally monogamous; instead, it is shown that both sexes have the predisposition to stray.  Another point covered is the conflict between our biological natures and the moral dictates of religion and society.   I gave the book four stars, instead of five, because I believe the authors copped out by stopping short of offering common sense guidelines that would allow society to acknowledge  this biological fact and to help make nonmonogamous relationships an openly acceptable alternative.